What Should you do when you love someone and you were forced to marry someone else?

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What Should you do when you love someone and you were forced to marry someone else?

Post by Syed Zaib » Fri Mar 29, 2019 1:35 pm

any suggestion?

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Re: What Should you do when you love someone and you were forced to marry someone else?

Post by Ridz » Fri Mar 29, 2019 5:12 pm

Forced marriage is invalid in Islam. You have tha right to say no and to choose your own marriage partner. I think you shouldn’t marry someone you are not devoted to. This will only leads to problems down the road, especially if you two are married. It is best to stop it now if your heart is with someone else, explain them who are forcing you that marriage without your consent is invalid. Allah has given us right to choose our spouses because at the end of the day when everyone goes to bed it is you who has to deal with your decisions, not your family and friends. Start getting closer to Allah, pray and ask Him to guide you. Do not lose hope but also know your limits; dont continue to talk to the man who you re in love with. Either make it Halaal or cut it off for the sake of Allah surely you will Blessed.
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Re: What Should you do when you love someone and you were forced to marry someone else?

Post by Syed Zaib » Fri Mar 29, 2019 9:00 pm

amazing reply rida.

Do you know any verse where we can find such material to give to someone who is really stuck in such scenario please?

JazakAllah for your reply really nice.

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Re: What Should you do when you love someone and you were forced to marry someone else?

Post by Ridz » Tue Apr 02, 2019 7:59 pm

yea for sure.
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Re: What Should you do when you love someone and you were forced to marry someone else?

Post by MahiKhan » Tue Apr 02, 2019 9:20 pm

Rida amazingg reply.
Syed Zaib the thing is effort should be equal from both the sides, fight for what you LOVE.A person should never give up and lose hope.People in such situations give up very easily,they lose hope,they aren't trusting their power of Love ,their prayers.

I would like to explain this thing with a totally materialistic example.
For Example a girl likes a purse and she really needs one as well,what she will do is she will not think for a second even and purchase that specific purse immediately.
Now here I have mentioned LIKING A PURSE, LIKING is different from LOVING and A PURSE which can be replaced after some years with a more beautiful PURSE.
But if that same girl she is in LOVE with a PERSON who can never be replaced (and here by, replacement I mean that the person you love is like the moon among the stars and you would never replace the moon with a star)
If we can fight and struggle for the materialistic things in the market while shopping , why don't we struggle and fight and try to get the person we LOVE.
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